Keep Walking: Defining Self in a Polarized Context

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In this episode, Faithwalking leader Mike DeRuyter (Midland, MI) and a group of Faithwalkers reflect on the topic of defining self in a polarized context. This conversation was originally recorded in June of 2020. 

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